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Employer Obligations around Bereavement Leave

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8 Feb 2017 (Last updated 3 Sept 2025)

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In the extremely sad and unfortunate circumstance of an employee losing a loved one, employers have certain responsibilities and duties. Are you aware of your duties as a Kiwi employer?

Employment Relations Authority (ERA)'s ruling on bereavement leave

The Employment Relations Authority (ERA) made an example of New Zealand Steel Ltd in 2016 after they failed to act in good faith when an employee lost his foster brother.

Awa Minhinnick requested three days’ bereavement leave following the death of his foster brother in January 2016. New Zealand Steel Ltd sought legal advice prior to responding to Minhinnick, specifically surrounding the legal definition of brother, which resulted in them denying the three days of bereavement leave. They did offer Minhinnick one day bereavement leave while suggesting the remaining two could be taken as annual leave.

Minhinnick’s foster brother, Arnold Kaihau, was in fact, loosely related by blood and had been raised by the family his entire life. As a result, the ERA deemed New Zealand Steel as an unfair and unreasonable employer for denying full bereavement leave entitlements to Minhinnick.

The death of a loved one is a distressing time for anyone involved and while the ERA  and Holiday’s Act do stipulate certain guidelines around the approval of bereavement leave. As an employer you must be sure to always act in good faith. While New Zealand Steel Ltd offered leave in accordance with what they perceived to be correct, it was what they interpreted as ‘brother’ that let them down.

Things to remember for employers

When a request for bereavement leave is presented, first and foremost, make sure you consider all the circumstances involved and that you act in a fair and reasonable manner.

While bereavement leave requirements may seem straight forward, it is crucial to ensure you treat all requests in good faith. If you are uncertain as to what is deemed as good faith, or are confused by your obligations as an employer, contact Peninsula.

To help you understand your obligations in line with employment regulations, some questions are outlined below.

Who is entitled to bereavement leave?

All employees are entitled to this leave, including permanent, full-time, fixed-term, part-time and casual, so long as they have participated in six months of continual employment with you or an average of 10 hours per week, and at least one hour in every week or 40 hours in every month.

How much leave are employees entitled to?

Three days: appropriate in the instance of the death of an immediate family member, defined as a spouse or partner, parent, child, sibling, grandparent, grandchild, or spouse or partner’s parent.

One day: for any other death whereby the employee is bereaved.

Employers need to be careful when determining if an employee is bereaved.  A baseline measure can include how close the employee was to the deceased, if the employee has any responsibilities associated with the ceremony or other requirements or if there are any cultural requirements involved.

Employees are entitled to bereavement leave every 12 months.

Do I need to pay full wages to staff on bereavement leave?

In basic terms, yes. If your employee would have been working on the day/s bereavement leave occurs, payment of the relevant daily pay or equivalent must be made. If the leave falls on a public holiday whereby the employee would have normally worked, the day is treated as a paid, unworked public holiday meaning no public holiday entitlements need to be paid.

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What is Bereavement Leave? Frequently Asked Questions

Losing an immediate family member or close friend can be tough for anyone. During this time, employees may be entitled to take bereavement leave provided they meet certain criteria. As an employer, you want to be able to support your employees and give them time off work to grieve. As with all entitlements, there are certain eligibility requirements and other provisions you should know. When can bereavement leave be used? Employees are entitled to three (3) days of paid bereavement leave following the death of an immediate family member. An employee may also be entitled to three days of paid bereavement leave at the end of a pregnancy in the case of a miscarriage or still-birth if they are an employee or in certain specified circumstances. One paid day of bereavement leave may also be taken if the employee has suffered a bereavement in respect of any other person. Part of assessing whether an employee has suffered a bereavement is how close they were, if the employee has any significant responsibility for the arrangements relating to the death or has any cultural responsibilities. There is a definition of an ‘immediate family member’, which covers: child grandchild grandparent parent sibling spouse or partner spouse or partner’s parent This definition means the death of an uncle or aunt, for instance, is not covered by the three paid days of bereavement leave but the employee would be entitled to one paid day if eligible. Can I ask an employee for evidence? You may ask an employee for evidence of their relation to the deceased. Understandably, this may be very sensitive for the employee, so keep that in mind if you do for evidence, and consider any difficulties in providing evidence in good faith. Keep in mind bereavement leave must be paid in the pay period in which the leave is taken.  If you do receive evidence from the employee, you can ensure that information will be kept safe and secure with BrightHR’s document storage. What employees are eligible? An employee needs to meet one of the below to be eligible to take bereavement leave: have worked for six months continuously for the employer if they have not worked for six months continuously for the employer, have worked for the employer for six months for an average of 10 hours per week, and at least one hour in every week or 40 hours in every month Employees, regardless of employment type, can take bereavement leave if eligible. The instances in which the employee can take bereavement leave are unlimited provided they meet the eligibility criteria. How much bereavement leave an employee take? The entitlement generally provides for three days’ of leave per bereavement. An employee can take one day on the death of another person (that is, not a relation listed above) if the employer accepts there is bereavement. Keep in mind there are separate rules if the employee becomes entitled to bereavement leave on a public holiday or while on annual leave.  How do I know if there has been a bereavement? Whether there has been bereavement or not depends on whether the person is a considered an immediate family member, how close the employee was with the deceased, their involvement in the funeral, or similar, ceremonies, and any cultural responsibilities in relation to the death. Obviously, what bereavement is may vary from person to person. What if an employee is not eligible or needs more time? If your employee does not yet meet the eligibility criteria, you and they can come to an agreement to take bereavement leave in advance. Alternatively, you can agree with the employee that they will take annual leave or leave without pay.  If the employee needs more time than their bereavement leave entitlement, you can agree to them using annual leave or taking leave without pay.  Understand your obligations with Peninsula Peninsula helps New Zealand business owners and employers keep up with their obligations to employees. Our team provides tailored support and advice for your business and industry. Call us on 0800 215 029 to find out how we can help you. This article is for general information purposes only and does not constitute as business or legal advice and should not be relied upon as such. It does not take into consideration your specific business, industry or circumstances. You should seek legal or other professional advice regarding matters as they relate to you or your business. To the maximum extent permitted by law, Peninsula Group disclaim all liability for any errors or omissions contained in this information or any failure to update or correct this information. It is your responsibility to assess and verify the accuracy, completeness, and reliability of the information in this article.

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